Married: How To Trigger Her Pleasure Points With Foreplay

You know the type of man that is all fire, set the woman aflame and while she is just getting set to enter the second gear, he is done and dusted. Phew, could be so disheartening.

Women love guys who are adept in the art of foreplay, being able to make his woman orgasm over and over again before he even thinks of himself. Yes, that is the word: get her all worked up and ready for you.

We are giving you 14 of such hot foreplay tips and tricks to pleasing your woman. But do not use them all up in one night!

1. The Great Warm-up

This is the pre-coital massage, the prelude to the main event. As a warm-up to the main occasion, start by massaging the length of her legs, from her upper thighs down to her ankles. Then focus on the feet, kneading her heels and all other points beneath. Then zero in on the toes and stretch them individually. Of course, if her hygiene encourages you to suck her toes, you’ll have her in ecstasy.

2. Ask What Turns Her On

Come right out and ask what she likes during sex. Most women appreciate men who want to make sure they’re satisfied and if she notices you’re working hard to please her, she’ll be more likely to return the favor.

3. Boost Your Foreplay Quotient

Improve the quality of foreplay and she’ll never again bug you about the quantity. If you act as if you’re just going through the motions to get to the sex, she’s going to notice, and it will take longer for her to get excited. So do what you want to do. If you like how her calves feel, stroke them. If you like her butt, kiss it. When a man loves what he’s doing, it’s going to show through and turn her on too.

4. Go Easy

Yes, the clitoris is the obvious place to focus your attention. Still, many men do wrong by it. Direct stimulation of the clitoris can actually be painful, so it is much better to rub the clitoral hood, that point where the tops of the labia meet, or to rub along the side of the clitoris than it is to go straight for the head of it. When playing with the clitoris focus on the clit, and not on the act itself. The clit reacts best to being teased, so you want to lick it and suck on it a little, build a little tension, then back off on it a bit before going at it again.

5. Drive Her Wild With The ‘Figure 8′ Technique

You wonder what this technique is right? Well, it is just this: When you’re at her service down below, work the super-sensitive area around her clitoris in a figure-8 pattern. Arouse her with gentle sucking until the little button swells, then carefully expose the area with your fingers. Use the slippery underside of your tongue to circle it to the left and then to the right. With the rougher top side of the tongue, flick from right to left and then up and down. Finally work up to figure 8s, alternating between your tongue’s smooth underside and firmer tip. Constantly vary the degrees of pressure you use.

6. Expand Your Repertoire

Expand your repertoire of oral sex with this method: You lie perpendicular to her body, which allows you to stroke her clitoris with your tongue in a crosswise motion, rather than up and down. She’ll appreciate the change in stimulation – hopefully, enough to return the reward.

7. A Body Part You Shouldn’t Neglect

Oft overlooked as mere roadblocks to the vagina, the labia are packed with nerve endings and are not to be ignored. Hold each one between your thumb and forefinger and massage it, working your way up and down. Or, using all of your fingers and your palm, ‘smoosh’ the labia together, almost like you’re gently kneading dough.

Watch out for the concluding part next week.